The original tag spoke about a teen in Texas, that was allegedly bullied and lashed out with a 45 caliber handgun that he “supposedly” found on the streets. What stuck out to me is how in the few articles that I read in preparation on this blogpost is how he was bullied by classmates. As a child safety advocate it always breaks my heart to hear how kids sometimes treat each other. I often think back to my childhood and how I was often bullied because of a stutter and speech impediment that I had. I was born with a “tied” tongue and had to have surgery at young age. I found myself on the receiving end of a bully many times. It wasn’t until I became a firearm instructor and the founder of the Kids S.A.F.E. Foundation, that I finally found my “voice.” I remember vividly in the beginning of my career spending a lot of time learning how to deal with my speech. I was able to adapt and overcome. I became a fierce defender of the kids, I wanted to be able to give them a voice. The difference between my youth and the kids of today is technology. In Today’s day and age, information is coming at our kids so quickly. It can really become overwhelming. It is really easy for kids to bully one another, especially with ease from their phones.
Society is doing a few things very badly. We aren’t teaching empathy to our children. We also aren’t teaching them critical thinking skills or inner strength. We instead are giving every kid a participation trophy for just showing up. This is not a very good learning lesson. There are winners and losers in life. I advise parents that they want their kids to be the best in the room. We want our kids to be beasts, just like we were when we were younger. It might not be a popular opinion but, wolves do not worry themselves with opinions of sheep. They just prevail. Part of what we need to do as parents, is be active in their lives. We have to understand the challenges they may face. I know this is easier said than done. Inflation, the increased cost of living, and single parent households make it harder to parent our kids. A solid foundation of becoming a decent human should be all of our goals as parents. We should also be mindful to lead our children by example. The way we carry ourselves and how we interact with others will set the example for our kids. We have to do better. I know it is really easy to fall into traps on social media. It’s easy to fire off from the privacy of our couch. What’s more challenging is not to engage and simply scroll on by. It’s really hard, but we have to understand on how it effects our minds and how it can be viewed by our kids. You are the leader of your home, it is one of the most important jobs that you will ever have. The future of the Republic truly depends on it.
We need our kids to understand that everyone is unique and that is what makes everyone special. We should be celebrating these facts. When we celebrate them and give our kids the tools to succeed, we all win. The likelihood of violence goes down. The left touts tolerance yet from the outside looking in, their actions DO NOT support tolerance. This isn’t meant to be a political point, it is just an observation from my position in the community. When we pretend to be “tolerant” we divide people up and put them into boxes. This isolates people and is counterproductive to the intended goal. We should be focusing on is being good human, good neighbors, and leaders. Not focusing on topics that will continue to divide, of course there is part of me that believes that this is all by design. The division drives the algorithms, in which drives advertising, in which raises revenue. It’s a disgusting thing, profits over the mental health of our fellow human beings.
It is never OK to bully, we need to teach our kids on how to treat one another and to be kind. This starts at home. We also need to teach our kids how to look out for others. True leadership comes from doing the “right” thing when no one is looking. Also to think differently form others is OK. Stand up for others, treat each other with respect. Some of these important lessons that I share with others, especially the kids. I learned from my own personal experiences growing up. It was those experiences, many taught to me by my father, that helped shape who I am today. I’m very grateful for that. It is my hope that I can share these very important lessons with others. Be good to yourself, your kids, and ensure that they are good to others. This will help save lives. Until next time. Be safe!!